Anyone know where to find a really good couch?

So it's almost Valentines Day... whoo hoo... BUT I think it's a good time to evaluate.


Yup... still single.


I did however receive a sweet card from my favorite guy so all in all not too awful but where am I in general?


I think that we (single people) don't really see our lives as complete until we find someone to share it with. I want someone to share my life with but my life is still the only one I have whether I've found the last piece or not. It's like a couch...


Say you buy a house... YAY! I bought a house..but oh wait... I don't have a couch. I don't want just any couch, I want THE perfect couch. Well what do I do with the rest of my stuff until I find my couch? I won't worry about that, I'll just leave it wherever and once I get the couch I can arrange it around my perfect couch...


But that's no good. You have to keep living your life regardless of the couch situation. There is no telling how long it'll take to find the couch and you can't keep living in limbo until it arrives. I think I've done that and I don't think I'm the only one. I didn't even realize that's what I was doing but I sure don't have a couch and my stuff is kinda just lying around wherever it landed. I'm not some sad sack living with boxes where tables should be but I do need to recognize when I'm putting "my real life" on hold instead of living it to the fullest. So the plan is to make this life as fabulous as possible and whenever I finally find my perfect couch I'll know exactly what kind will fit the best.


I'm not creating my life around the couch... the couch will have to fit into my creation.